Vetting & Safety
Trust is not assumed. It is built.
Aurum's process is designed to protect privacy, reduce risk, and create a respectful environment for serious introductions.
Vetting Layers
Layered, thoughtful, ongoing.
Identity Verification
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Relationship Availability Review
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Intent Screening
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Reputation and Reference Review
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Conduct Standards
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Consent-Based Sharing
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Background Screening Where Appropriate and Lawful
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Ongoing Feedback
A standard step of the Aurum vetting and consent process.
Privacy Standards
Your information is never shared without approval.
Aurum does not operate public profiles or searchable databases. Information is shared only when relevant, limited, and approved. Candidate members control what is shared and when.
Code of Conduct
Respect, before, during, and after.
- —Treat every person with respect.
- —Do not pressure, harass, mislead, or manipulate.
- —Do not share private information.
- —Do not request transactional arrangements.
- —Do not misrepresent relationship status, age, identity, finances, or intentions.
- —Respect boundaries before, during, and after introductions.
Removal Policy
Aurum may suspend or remove any member or client who violates privacy, consent, safety, or conduct standards.
Disclaimer
Vetting reduces risk but cannot eliminate all risk. Aurum encourages personal judgment, public first meetings when appropriate, and clear boundaries.