Safety & Review
Trust is not assumed. It is built.
Aurum's process is designed to protect members, reduce risk, and create a respectful environment for serious introductions.
Review Layers
Layered, thoughtful, ongoing.
Identity Verification
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Relationship Availability Review
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Intent Review
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Reference Review
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Conduct Standards
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Consent-Based Sharing
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Background Screening Where Appropriate and Lawful
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Ongoing Feedback
A standard step of the Aurum review and consent process.
Privacy Standards
Your information is never shared without approval.
Aurum does not operate public profiles or searchable databases. Information is shared only when relevant, limited, and approved. Members control what is shared and when.
Code of Conduct
Respect, before, during, and after.
- —Treat every person with respect.
- —Do not pressure, harass, mislead, or manipulate.
- —Do not share other members' information.
- —Do not request transactional arrangements.
- —Do not misrepresent relationship status, age, identity, or intentions.
- —Respect boundaries before, during, and after introductions.
Removal Policy
Aurum may suspend or remove any member who violates privacy, consent, safety, or conduct standards.
Disclaimer
Review reduces risk but cannot eliminate all risk. Aurum encourages personal judgment, public first meetings when appropriate, and clear boundaries.