Our Process

A guided process from application to first introduction.

Two adults meeting respectfully for a conversation — Aurum introduction

Step 01

Apply

Applicants begin with an application. We ask about relationship goals, values, lifestyle, communication style, and what you are looking for in a long-term partner.

Step 02

Team Review

Our team reviews each application to help maintain a respectful, relationship-minded member network.

Step 03

Verification & Consent

Approved applicants complete identity verification, consent items, and conduct expectations.

Step 04

Compatibility Work

We build a picture of your values, lifestyle, family goals, timing, location flexibility, and what long-term compatibility looks like for you.

Step 05

Mutual Match

We look for mutual interest and long-term alignment. No one is browsed or listed publicly.

Step 06

Introduction

No introduction is automatic. Both people must approve before any contact details are shared.

Step 07

Follow-Through

After an introduction we collect respectful feedback and support next steps when both people are interested.

Step 08

Ongoing Support

Matchmaking continues until the term is complete, paused, or a meaningful connection develops.